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One of the biggest complaints I hear from men is how women always go for bad boys a.k.a a**holes.
They have been led to believe that good guys finish last, and that being nice is a bad thing.
I went through hardships and heartbreaks and picked myself back up which built my strength and courage. And as a woman, you are attracted to very different things than you are as a girl. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life.
Instead of relying on beauty as my source of empowerment, I focused on basing my empowerment on my intelligence, successes, values, contributions to the world and how I helped others. In fact, some people regardless of their age, will never really grow up.
No woman truly wants a punk but many will quickly take advantage of one if the opportunity presents itself.
As for being unpredictable, because bad boys are more self-absorbed and they don’t really care, it’s hard to call his next move.
They sit there hoping they can change some of the bad boys behavior while keeping those core traits intact. Continue to be a man who can cherish a woman and treat her like a queen but put your foot down in a heartbeat if she even thinks about disrespecting you.
You have to embrace your value as a good man and let that turn into genuine confidence which will catch the attention of many women.
It’s not about treating a woman like crap like some a**holes do but you have to know how to stand your ground and not be her puppet.
Be a source of love, joy, excitement, and all those good things but you don’t need to force it upon her.
Meaning you can be that great guy but if she does not want it or can’t appreciate it then let her ass walk!
In my opinion it’s not that women really like some of the a**hole behavior that comes with a bad boy, but there are certain traits in those guys that they do admire.
Confidence, being assertive, and being unpredictable is what is really drawing a woman to those bad boys.
They are so busy trying to please the woman, and possibly please others, that they let people get away with too much.